Jum'ah Journal--Wisdom of the Creator

In sura Shoora (42nd) aya 49 and 50 " Allah's is the kingdom of heavens and the earth; HE creates what HE pleases;HE grants to whom HE pleases daughters and grants to whom HE pleases sons. Or HE makes them of both sorts male and female; and HE makes whom HE pleases barren; Surely HE is the knowing, the powerful" 

    I have pointed out His wisdom and being the cause of the causes (Musabba-al-asbaab) in the story of Kakkaji last year. My friends and acquaintances stories One: The couple had to go through lot of difficulties to get one child (Fertility clinic etc.) Allah gave them one girl. In the neonatal period poor thing developed hemorrhage in the brain, neurosurgery etc. recovered but got some damage done. You may call it some mental and physical disabilities. The couple are devoted to the child's life. Have spent as much as they could to rehabilitate her (spent some months in an European country) ,she is walking and talking. Allah creates extraordinary love in these couples/parents--for the sake of the child Allah wanted to be born. Second: Not unusual here you hear about the "child" killing the parent/parents. You have such news every so often but a Sister of (I know the family) 

one such mother who was killed by her son, after so many years still cant get over it and I wonder how all this has happened? Was the mother at fault or not capable enough or should God have not allowed such son to be born (May Allah forgive me for saying so, not thinking I can make better judgement) but surely here we see how and why God makes things like you see in the quoted verses above. HE only is the one who has the knowledge for what is to be born and why?

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