Search This Blog

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Golden Anniversary/Friends



We started 1952 our friendship with our admission to medical school
Our names start with last of the alphabets so we got booked this way (my name with W, wahaj and others with Z one of them with S).

First about the second picture below--- see carefully
The upper exposure in the second picture, was taken 1955-56 and the lower one 2004 (Christmas day)

Now the first (upper) photo---
Benazir's untimely death creating unhealthy circumstances, cancelled our programs that were schduled on 28th and 30th Dec. 2007 in Lahore.
To cut the story short we got together on 30th of Dec. in Gujranwala, our host being a friend who has for 50+ years been trying to get into our five's group but something or the other keeps him from it. You are wondering why?
Well, firstly his name begins with A which is far removed from Z or W or S. Second they divided our batch of 100 to 110 students (in those days) into two groups batch A and batch B. So our friend with A fell into A batch and whether you can appreciate it or not there is a huge difference in the two batches. The A were tempramentally very different group than those of us in the B. I know you are shaking your head but it is true and I cant go into more details, you have to just believe me. Now read on---
Well, here was a good chance for our friend with A to join us as he played our host in Gujranwala. Now this was a gesture we could not resist and of course he is an excellent host and a generous one.
So you see this photo taken by S, (so he is not in) and you see we are discussing after a sumptuous dinner at his "joint" (but seriously he has a very comfortable and cosy home)
So it does appear to be historic occasion.
We have played this a continuing pun but the fact is we have had a sincere and long lasting friendship even though our professional and personal lives have been somewhat varied. Yes we are all thankful to the Almighty for allowing us to enjoy each other's company and in relatively good health, like one of my older friends once said "Allah ka shukr hay baghair baisakhiyon kay chal laita hoon" . This all is from His Grace that we are still able to do. So we thank Him profusely when we meet together.
Going back to 1952, we were sitting in the Jinnah (Lawrence) Gardens (the five of us) when I placed this suggestion of friendship for each of us to tell all the 'secrets' of our lives to become close friends as we were going to be together for a minimum of 5 years before graduating. We have by the Grace of God shared our lives ever since then and helped each other whenever we could and kept close contact as much as we could, no matter where we lived.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Amazing! I'm 40 and I've hardly kept in touch with anyone at all.
Allah karay you all keep in touch always.

Anonymous said...

Is that profile picture from your infancy??? Oh my God, you were so cute!

bsc said...

Yes that was my very first pose to the photographer in 1934. It is extracted from a pic of Zubaida, Bhijan Meraj and me.
I thought that the photograph of two groups is a remarkable one
There is more to come for this visit.

JAG said...

haha...us vele vi GQ te ajj vi GQ...mashaAllah :) don't know why i didn't get the GQ gene...

oakleyses said...

abercrombie and fitch, ugg boots, mont blanc pens, rolex watches, hollister, insanity workout, soccer jerseys, jimmy choo shoes, mcm handbags, ferragamo shoes, chi flat iron, herve leger, uggs on sale, celine handbags, north face outlet, nike huarache, ugg outlet, ugg soldes, birkin bag, new balance outlet, lululemon outlet, p90x workout, wedding dresses, asics shoes, roshe run, canada goose outlet, longchamp, ugg, valentino shoes, vans outlet, marc jacobs outlet, bottega veneta, north face jackets, canada goose outlet, nfl jerseys, ghd, canada goose, mac cosmetics, babyliss pro, instyler ionic styler, uggs outlet, canada goose outlet, giuseppe zanotti, beats headphones, soccer shoes, nike trainers, reebok shoes

oakleyses said...

hollister clothing, air max, wedding dress, baseball bats, vans, pandora uk, ralph lauren, moncler, moncler outlet, juicy couture outlet, supra shoes, ray ban, swarovski jewelry, toms outlet, canada goose pas cher, timberland shoes, converse shoes, ugg, hollister canada, links of london uk, moncler, karen millen, moncler, hollister, nike air max, montre femme, canada goose uk, canada goose, uggs canada, converse, oakley, moncler, moncler, pandora jewelry, louis vuitton canada, coach outlet, pandora charms, juicy couture outlet, gucci, replica watches, moncler, parajumpers outlet, lancel, swarovski uk, iphone 6 case, louboutin, thomas sabo uk, canada goose

bsc said...

Well today 16 years later (11/13/23) I have lost two One on extreme left - Bhutta years ago and Zaheer - the midle one 10/6/23
Strictly speaking Zulfi -second from left - Has dementia so only me and Frooki are coressponding with each other
Frooki has been sad since he lost his beloved wife 6yras ago