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Saturday, April 06, 2024

New Home

March 28 came and went but I was too busy to say anything on my 49th Wedding anniversary, In any case we are at the stage when  the husband suggests we should celebrate by "keeping silent for one hour" or something like that
Problem is we had closing of new home scheduled but it got posponed to 3rd April and also closing for the rental property that I sold which was also postponed. The home we have lived here in NC (5th one) since May-June of 2003
Anyway, all done and now all we need to do is to move to our new home and that will be now after Eid which falls on 10th April
We are having a guest after Eid, my fav niece Anjum who is on her way back to Pakistan (Lahore) after having visited her  new baby boy born to her daughter in Chicago


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Thursday, February 29, 2024

Refugees ("South of the Border")

There is lot of news for some time and it frequently reminds me of this problem with personal experiences

Yes, That takes me back to 1947 time of Partition of India by the British when they left India. Although we had transferred (Most of the family) to Punjab in 1944, My father was still running his clinic (Hikmat) and was wrapping up everything to make final transfer completed. The Punjab village was a small one with a capacious house built in preparation for living good according to our mother's plans. It turned out to be huge c omfort for us a "refugee" of some kind. Even before the 14-5th of August 1947 some convenient crossings of the "border" (Government created) especially those who had families acroos the border the Hindus crossing to "India" and Muslims crossing to "Pakistan"
 The real crossings however in very large numbers began after 15th August. Those who had no relatives and no houses  would still cross over to be safe from being killed. Yes this is different from these crowds that I see on TV of groups of people with bags and baggages or without them just to be on the soil of America in the hope of better living. Our Muslim crossing groups were always liable to be attacked by Indian Hindus and Sikhs This was one of the many "Hindu-Muslim" riots. Total of several million Muslims sought refuge and millions lost their lives, lost their families children lost their parents etc. A couple of years I spent trying to cope with these everyday news of killings and bloodfilled crossings
  My father left Saugor (Central India)  and came to Punjab on 26th July by train. The train crossing the wouldbe border of India-Pakistan 27th July was attacked by nonMuslim mobs and killed many Muslims. The killings had started. Although our village was far removed from Indian border there was a scare that Sikhs may come to attach Muslim homes
   The experience of my wife (sarwat) was more hurtful She lived with parents in a small town that was undecided until later than August 15 that it will remain in India. So she had to cross with her parents to Pakistan only 16 miles away that was Government controlled Trains crossing Just as the new Pakistan Government (less equipped) arranged such safer crossings of refugees by buses and trains which sometimes were attaked anyway
What Sarwat remembers as a 6-7 yr old girl walking or on her fathers shoulders watching families and groups of people with or without an belongings walkign or on bullock carts or any other means of transportations that could be afforded 
 Yes there were temporary arrangements for stay of refugees in tents or no tents There were refugees spread all over Pakistan near or even not so near the Indian borders It was ahorrible sight for all to see and also the sensitive little girl who lived through this watching the human plight which was one of the reasons she badopted Psychiatry as her chosen specialty as a physician

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Monday, February 26, 2024

TOYOTA AVALON

      I know there is nothing special about such cars but I am so disappointed by new models of this Avalon thing I must write down my frustration
  It is afine car in top of the line productions of Toyota people nad first i bought in the year 2000 and have been so happy with the comfort and economical  running of this car that I have not chosen any other after that
     Well so when did I become unhappy and why??? That is to do with the rest of the computer indications suggestions etc things like that
 My 2000 model was comfortable and as i will sit and switch on it will greet me with visible date, day of the week and time Of course milage and other things are shown in every type of model and car As I changed to a newer model after a few goos years things changed and all the information changed. Like the one I have now 2015 Toyota Avalon and it shows no date , no Day of the week but just milage and somehting that is called
Average fuel economy telling me a big imp info how many mikes per gallon my car is doing
Dont I know how to save gas and what should be the driving speed be for such things?  
So the info shows up with the word eco
It is nothing but annoying to see it come up in front of you along with milage
Disappointed?  is an understatemrnt



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Thursday, January 25, 2024

Music # 3, Eastern and Western Mix


    I may have expressed my interest
in  music before but Here I wish to make in interesting example. Bollywood music started originally with eastern type of rhythms instruments and by early forties (20th century) The western tunes and instruments had already made their way into Bollywood songs Many examples but I wish to quote one here
 The original song (Called Anniversary song) was sung by Al Jolso in 1947 and later Andy Williams,  made it popular again in 1964. It is a beautiful heart warming tune along with similar romantic wording

    Ooooo how we danced on the night we were wed
      We vowed oue true love though a word was'nt said
   Now somewhere later Rajkapur produced his hit film "Bersaat" in which music was composed by a newcomer pair Shanker- JaiKishan and they did such a wonderful job there were many hit songs produced But one song
 Hoooo mujhay kisi say piyar ho giya (is the one I am talking about here)
 Very chanchal type of song but its opening plays a soft Violin tune and guess what that tune of the anniversary song plays that soon followed by the  chanchal play of the violin and the Hindi song
   If you have time listen to both to check my statement It is raelly intriguing and fascinating




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Friday, January 19, 2024

The New Year 2024

        Well I was quiet in the month of December because it was a busy month for me We are planning to move to another state soon
   Jan 15 is the important date (My wifes Birthday) that I am not allowed to forget inspite of my advancing memory problems
 The date came and went without any special program and not like my ninetieth birthday
Partly because it seems we are too old for any excitements or so it seems




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Sunday, November 26, 2023

The best Thanksgiving ever

    I visited my thanksgiving blog of 2021 and found it was very enjoyable one considered the best BUT
the one we had again whole family together three days back is unbeatable- better than that of 2021- for enjoyments and birthday celebration - dragged- like in 21 and this time it was mine- just over 50 days late 90th birthday 
Wow and all these children and grandchildren actually sang for me
Very touchy
 Yes there was turkey as before which Jugnoo and Ayesha cooked PLUS a special cake made by Ayesha for my birthday


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Saturday, November 18, 2023

Music #2 (especially Bollywood films)

 My previous blog on music and my interest was written May 07, 2009
     I had mentioned how closely I followed classical and semiclassical music in general and specially in Bollywood movies where it all started.
I had mentioned most5 of the rags and some tunes derived from them. I wish to mention here about Derbari raag
  Two most well-knownpopular Bhajans (Actually written by Muslims) both in Derbari are
--- O, duniya k rakhwalay
and --- Tora man derpan kehlayay
  Now note the first one O dunia k rakhwalay waswritten by Shakeel Badauni (Muslim) Tune composed by Nawshad (Muslim) Sung by Mohammad Rafi
 And second Tora man derpan, --- written by Saher Ludhianvi   (Saher was in Government college Lahore 1949 (Abdul Hayyi, his original name) like so many other well known Filmi greats (I had recently learned about DevAnand)
 Incidentaly in 2009, I had written in my note I still enjoy Quran recitation but now for over 5-6 years I have lost that enjoyment also as my hearing is gone and only source of sound for me is my right Cochlear implant and no sound from left ear but alHamdulillah the implant helps listen to it, it s just the ups and downs of the tune cannot be appreciated by my "artificial ear"




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